First Questions to Ask a Business Seller

· Dr. Connor Robertson

A first meeting with a business seller is a discovery conversation, not a substitute for due diligence. Its job is to reveal the owner's goals, the company's operating model, and the documents a buyer would need next. Use open questions, take notes on exact answers, and resist the temptation to treat a confident statement as a verified fact.

Ask these questions in sequence

  1. Why are you considering a sale now? Learn whether timing comes from retirement, a new venture, partner changes, or pressure inside the business. Ask what date matters and why.
  2. What outcome would make this a good sale for you? Price may be only one factor. Clarify preferences about employees, brand, customers, payment timing, and continued involvement.
  3. What does a normal week look like for you? Have the owner name recurring decisions, approvals, customer relationships, and emergencies. This exposes work a buyer may need to replace.
  4. Who can run the business when you are away? Ask which managers have authority, what systems they can access, and the longest period the owner has been absent without disruption.
  5. Where does new business come from? Identify repeat customers, referrals, contracts, paid acquisition, and relationships tied personally to the owner. Request a customer concentration report later.
  6. What would you change if you kept the business? Listen for deferred hiring, pricing, technology, equipment, or process work. Ask why the change has not happened.
  7. What concerns would your team have about a new owner? This opens a discussion of key employees, communication, and retention without making promises the buyer cannot yet support.
  8. What would a useful next step look like? Agree on the next conversation, confidentiality process, initial documents, and decision owner on each side.

Translate answers into verification

For every important answer, write down a follow-up source. If the owner says revenue is recurring, request customer or contract data. If a manager supposedly runs daily operations, review the org chart, permissions, and recent decisions. If the seller expects to leave immediately, list the knowledge that must be transferred before closing. These requests belong in a staged diligence process, with confidentiality controls appropriate to the information.

Do not spend the first meeting interrogating the owner about every line of the financial statements. A short list of direct questions usually earns a clearer picture. Save detailed accounting, legal, customer, and operational testing for the people responsible for those reviews.

Leave with a one-page meeting record

Capture four items: the seller's stated reason and desired outcome; the owner's day-to-day dependencies; the three largest unanswered questions; and the next document request with an owner and date. Mark each statement as seller-reported until it has been checked. If the answers conflict, record the conflict rather than resolving it from memory.

The next read is what sellers may care about beyond price. For the broader investigation, use the business acquisition due diligence checklist. The letter of intent guide covers the stage when preliminary deal terms move into writing.

About the Author

Dr. Connor Robertson is a Pittsburgh-based entrepreneur, author, and podcast host. He is the founder of Elixir Consulting Group, publisher of The Pittsburgh Wire, and host of The Prospecting Show.

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Dr. Connor Robertson
Dr. Connor Robertson

Entrepreneur, author, and podcast host based in Pittsburgh. Connor writes about business strategy, leadership, and building ventures that create lasting impact. Explore his published books.